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Are You Stressing Out Your Dog?

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You might think your dog has absolutely nothing to be stressed about: no job, no bills to pay, no children to provide for. However, from dog’s perspective, life can be full of stress and there are numerous factors that are especially stressful for them. Many stress triggers are connected to other animals, traffic and loud noises that you can’t really do anything about, but some stressful situations are actually caused by you. Here are top causes of stress in dogs.

Punishing your dog for normal dog behavior

white chi barking on leash


Dogs will be dogs. You can’t expect your dog not to bark, rummage through trash or chew on things. If you leave these temptations within your dog’s reach, they will most likely succumb. However, that’s normal dog behavior that doesn’t need punishment. So, instead of yelling at your dog for behaving like a dog, try to remove those temptations and provide your dog with appropriate activities.

Giving different command for the same tasks

Many pet owners think their dog understands English and knows that “fetch”, “get it” and “bring it” means the same thing. However, your dog might get super confused by these different sounds and become stressed since they know you want them to do something, but they don’t know what exactly you want them to do. It’s best if you use simple words and stay consistent.

Tugging on the leash


Dogs love to stop and sniff things when outside and they tend to pull in the direction of “fun” stuff. This is also normal dog behavior, so be patient and understanding. Allow your dog to smell things in his surrounding without yanking it every two seconds. That doesn’t mean you should let your dog dictate the direction, tempo and length of your walks (you’re still the boss), but just be a bit more patient.

Hugging your dog

Dogs don’t really understand hugs and kisses and they can be quite stressful and scary from their point of view. How would you feel if someone so much larger than you grabbed and squeezed you without a warning? So, as soon as you feel your dog squirming and panting while being hugged, stop and stick to petting instead.

Waking your dog

Just like you probably hate being disturbed when you sleep, the same is with your dog. Don’t wake her up just because you feel like playing fetch or taking a walk. Sudden noises and shakes can be quite stressful.

Leaving your dog alone for long periods of time

Loneliness and boredom are at the top of stress triggers in any dog’s life. You cannot expect that leaving your dog alone for a week (even if your neighbors feed her and give her water) will have a positive effect on her mental health. If you must leave your dog, make sure to find a good pet boarding facility that will ensure your pet has company, good food, and ample physical and mental activity.

Not providing enough physical and mental activity

Just like you, your dog also benefits from daily physical and mental activity. Those keep them fit, strong and happy. However, if you don’t provide your dog with activities they enjoy, they can become stressed, bored, aggressive and destructive. So, try to have regular walks or jogs with your dog. You can also try swimming, ball playing, Frisbee fetching or various agility and tracking training. Obedience training is a great way to keep your pup feel useful, mentally sharp and challenged.

So, if you want to have a healthy and happy pet, you must remove these stress triggers from their life. You might not be able to stop people from enjoying fireworks, yelling and speeding through your street, but you can change your behavior and your habits that cause dog stress. However, if after you implement these changes you dog still looks stressed, don’t hesitate to visit your pet.


Friday 9th of October 2020

My chihuahua is mixed breed, her mom is full breed chihuahua, dad is Yokie and Shizhu mix I may not be spelling the second one correctly,but anyway I would like some info on this type breed . Gracie is a sweetheart her personality is amazing


Friday 9th of October 2020

I don't have any info on a chi/yorkie/shihtzu mix Michelle but we have lots of information about chihuahuas.


Friday 9th of October 2020

Hi, my best friend’s name is Yoko. I adopted her when she was 10 yrs. old. I had to make an emergency appt with my vet the day after I got her. Life had not been good to her. She had to have 16 teeth pulled. She’s been with me a year now and is doing great. My question is what kind of exercise should she have and I’m handicapped so walking is out. Any suggestions will be appreciated.


Friday 9th of October 2020

Will she chase a small ball? You can roll it in the house and if she will hopefully catch it and bring it back, you can play fetch. And I know this is mostly used for cats, but we have a laser pointer that we point all over and the dogs love to chase it.

Logan collins

Friday 4th of October 2019

Here is our special baby his first day home .and one year old.

C Cheyenne

Wednesday 22nd of April 2020

My little Cheyenne 1 years old


Friday 4th of October 2019

The photo didn't make it through Logan. It may be too big.