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Why Is My Chihuahua So Attached To Me?

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Chihuahuas are famous for being attached to their people. As this is a universal trait across various dogs of the breed, it is part of the petite package that is the tiny but mighty Chihuahua.

blond woman holding chihuahua

Why are these little dogs this way? Let’s discuss:

The Temperament Of The Chihuahua

Dogs are all individuals as humans are, however, due to their predisposition to bond strongly to a favorite human, the average Chihuahua loves the company of their people. Individual personal preferences or life experiences, such as abuse, may cause a Chihuahua to prefer their personal space.

fawn chihuahua in beige purse

Sometimes known as “purse dogs” or “velcro dogs”, they always want to be with their people. As a breed they are very affectionate and are all about snuggling. They tend to bond most strongly to one person rather than their whole family or social circle, though they often want attention from whoever offers it.

The temperament of the Chihuahua results from their breeding. Every dog breed was bred for a specific purpose. Chihuahuas were bred to be companions, and the pioneers of the breed selected the most affectionate dogs to keep the role of companion effectively filled by the breed.

Ancient peoples may have used Chihuahuas as hot compresses for injuries as a result of their clingy disposition. This breed was incredibly effective at this task because they are happy to snuggle for hours in the lap of their favorite people, who will tell you they can be little furnaces!

What Makes Chihuahuas Extra Velcro Dogs?

woman on white couch holding chihuahua

Although the breed is predisposed to be a velcro dog based upon their role as a companion breed, some life changes may cause your Chihuahua to become a whole new level of clingy:

  • A change in schedule.
  • A new member joining the family, human or animal.
  • Less time together.
  • A stressful event such as a veterinary examination or nail trim.
  • Your Chi sustained an injury or os feeling sick and is seeking comfort.

If you have any big life changes coming up, prepare your Chihuahua for the transition by maintaining their schedule as much as possible, creating opportunities to spend quality time together, and working on training to offer mental stimulation and bonding to ease their stress.

Be sure to schedule regular preventive care veterinary appointments to ensure your Chi stays in good health, and make sure that any injury sustained is examined promptly to give your Chi the best quality of life that you can.

When Your Chihuahua Loves You Too Much: Resource Guarding

man holding chihuahua

If your Chihuahua is sitting in your lap or playing with a favorite toy or enjoying a treasured treat, what does he or she do when other people or animals approach you?

If his or her response is to growl or snap, your Chi deems their item of choice a resource worthy of guarding. While that seems like a compliment when that item is you, it actually has the potential to become a liability.

Resource guarding is when a dog deems something so valuable that they choose to guard it from being taken from them. Dogs may resource guard a variety items such as; favorite toys, treasured treats, or a preferred person. Dogs usually guard their valued toy, treat or person from both people and other animals.

Depending upon how far your Chi will go to protect their resource of choice, resource guarding poses a safety and liability issue. When a dog will bite to guard their resource, someone may become injured.

When your dog bites someone, no matter their size, not only may they be emotionally injured which can take years to recover from, but their physical injury may give them grounds to file a lawsuit. Further, some counties have dog bite laws that may result in your dog being held in the animal shelter if they bite another person or animal.

What To Do If Your Chihuahua Resource Guards You

chihuahua in pink shirt with person's hand holding a treat

If your Chi is resource-guarding you, address the behavior immediately to prevent it from getting worse. Search for a dog trainer who provides personal in-home sessions to address the behavior in the environment that it is occurring in.

While a personal dog trainer may sound expensive, most of them have chosen this job because of their love for dogs. Extreme resource guarding can cause a dog to be re-homed especially when there are children in the home, so most trainers want to work with you to help you be able to keep your dog.

If you can only afford one private session a month, the trainer can give you homework exercises to do in-between sessions to keep making progress without frequent sessions.


senior lady sitting on couch holding chihuahua

Chihuahuas are attached to their people by nature, although some Chihuahuas may prefer their space based on their individual personal preferences or life experiences such as abuse, or a medical condition that makes being handled painful.

If your Chi does not allow people or animals to approach you by growling, snapping, or biting at them, this is called resource guarding and it should be handled immediately with training to ensure the safety and well-being of yourself, your friends, and your family.

blond woman holding white chihuahua

Cathy Bendzunas

Pet Blogger

I have had dogs all my life. I have been a pet groomer, worked in a pet hotel, and a kennel, and have bred and showed dogs.


Thursday 7th of March 2024

Hi, was given my Baby after my husband passed! Bean is my dearest companion! He knows the bed-Time routine! He snuggles under the comforter, on his back spread eagle! He snores, farts, but he is my baby! & he knows it! He has many baby blankets, he knows their his! He is friendly with everyone, but is mom’s baby! 🥰🥰his sister is a English Mastiff! Gives bean a kiss, his whole face is clean! Would not trade my fur baby for any amount of Gold! Fur Mom!! 🐾🐾❤️❤️

Cathy Bendzunas

Thursday 7th of March 2024

I'm glad you have your little Bean Tess!

Phyllis Black

Saturday 28th of January 2023

I really look forward to your newsletter and love it. I have a rescue Chi that was abused and he had to have a hip ball removed 3 years ago when I got him. I'm so thankful that he isn't a resource guarder, even though he's been through a lot. He is my little gift from Abba Father in heaven. I got Bam Bam just two weeks before my deceased husband went into the nursing home, dying of a bad heart. The first night he went to bed with me, he came back out from under the covers, stood on my chest and licked my nose. it was as if he was saying, "Thank you for rescuing me, I love you." Wow, he is so special and he has done that every night since then too! He has been such a comfort to me since my husband died and my other two small dogs as well. I hope and pray your surgery went well and your healing fast. I too am facing serious surgery on my back and tail bone. I see the surgeon on Monday. I am concerned for my Chi, as he will not eat when I'm not home with him.


Sunday 5th of February 2023

Good luck on your surgery Phyllis! I hope you get home quickly and have a fast recovery.


Saturday 28th of January 2023

I just love your newsletter and enjoy reading it every week. Praying you have a speedy recovery and restored health.



Sunday 5th of February 2023

Thanks Ginny!