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What I Wish I had Done Differently with my Chihuahua Puppy

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When we attempt something for the first time, we are all bound to make mistakes. Hind sight is always 20/20. Based upon input from my readers, there are a few things that they would have done differently now that they have gained experience owning a Chihuahua.

tiny chihuahua puppy sitting in grass

I gathered the lessons some of my readers learned from owning their first Chihuahuas to write this article in hopes that other Chihuahua owners will benefit from their perspectives.


I wish I had not babied my Chihuahua

Lindsay of Virginia was gifted a black Chihuahua named Riley for her eighteenth birthday. He is now eleven years old, and her advice to other new Chihuahua parents is to not baby their Chihuahuas.

Lindsay held Riley constantly for the first month he lived with her:

“Riley was barely two pounds. That is TINY! He was about the size of a guinea pig. I was constantly afraid of allowing him to roam freely around the house. For the first three weeks he lived with me, he was constantly in my arms, swaddled like a baby, which I called making him a “blanket burrito”.

Into the fourth week of swaddling him like a blanket burrito, I realized I was holding him too much. He had no complaints about it, but I knew it was not fruitful for raising a well balanced dog. I started to let him roam more freely, and to ease my mind, I purchased a breakaway cat collar with a bell to help me keep track of his whereabouts.”

Lindsay also shares that she babied Riley more than she should have as a young dog, and how this impacted his personality:

“When Riley finished growing, his little legs were the circumference of baby carrots and he was always shaking. If puppies go to puppy school to learn how to look pitiful and hypnotize their owners into doing whatever they want, he was probably the professor of that puppy school.

I was constantly scooping him up and babying him, and he began to expect it. While he thoroughly enjoyed the view of his kingdom (my house) from his throne (my arms), the constant doting made him become expectant that his kingdom would be run his way.

He would not listen to commands and became a “resource guarder” who would bite me multiple times to protect what he deemed to be a resource. Sometimes this behavior made sense, like if he had a piece of human food I had dropped while cooking, and other times it made no sense, like a dried worm on the sidewalk.

Either way, I risked being bitten multiple times when I tried to take away whatever item he deemed important. This behavior was not fixed overnight; it was expensive and difficult to change. I am grateful that nothing happened to me, as he would have been difficult to adopt out with his behavioral issues.”


I wish I had worked on handling my Chihuahua

Lauren of California purchased a brown Chihuahua puppy who she named Brownie when she was nineteen from a homeless man who was selling puppies on a beach she was roller skating by.

Brownie is now six years old, and Lauren wishes that she had prepared her life better by handling her more.

“When Brownie was a puppy, she loved to cuddle, but on her terms and she would not tolerate certain parts of her body being held. She did not like if I attempted to hold her paws, look in her ears, or look at her teeth.

As she got older I attempted to brush her teeth per her veterinarian’s recommendation, but she would not allow me to brush her teeth. She barely tolerated baths, ear cleaning sessions, or pawdicures (nail trims).

I was very fortunate to find a kind and patient groomer who worked with Brownie every month for a year to help her tolerate these things. This groomer taught me that whenever you add a puppy to your family, you should always run your hands all over their body as much as you can; hold each paw for a minute, look into their ears, lift their lips to see their teeth, lift up their tail to check their behind, stroke their legs, rub their bellies and praise them like crazy.

This is necessary because they will need to be groomed, and if they become injured, if they cannot tolerate being handled, it will make it extremely difficult for a veterinarian to examine and treat their injuries.”

I wish I had spent more time training my Chihuahua

Paige of Texas took ownership of a gray Chihuahua named Franklin who was no longer wanted by his family because he was a “tea cup Chihuahua” who grew larger than his family wanted him to be.

“Franklin was still young and about six pounds when I adopted him. When he finished growing, he was a force to be reckoned with weighing in at a whopping ten pounds. He acted like he was one hundred pounds and like he was the boss of the house, and I allowed him to because he was cute and I felt bad for him.

In retrospect, I have no idea why I felt bad for him; he had a wonderful life with me! This combination of his small stature and my pity resulted in the inmate running the asylum. For example, if he decided he wanted a taste of my dinner, he would bark at me until I offered him a sample, which I always relented to quickly, living in an apartment and not wanting to receive complaints from the neighbors.

He knew no basic commands and did not listen to anything I asked him to do. As a result, I spent hundreds of dollars and most of my free time working with Franklin either with a dog trainer privately, attending training classes, or training at home just the two of us.

He was stubborn, and it was a long, hard, road to ride on but eventually we turned a corner. One of my trainers said, “Would you let a dog who weighed over a hundred pounds do everything you allow Franklin to do?”

Anytime Franklin did something naughty, I learned to pause and think if I had a dog who was large, would this behavior be a significant issue? If it was, I took steps to work with him on what behavior was acceptable and what behavior was not.

Chihuahuas can live for a long time, sometimes even past twenty, so I knew that I wanted to enjoy my life with Franklin, not be stressed out trying to live with a dog who did not listen to me. Training was good for Franklin and for me.”

tiny 2 tone chihuahua puppy

I wish I had been a stronger advocate for my Chihuahua

Peyton of North Carolina was gifted a black and white Chihuahua named Baxter for Christmas when she was sixteen. While she considers Baxter to be the greatest gift she has ever received, she regrets how the first few years of his life were lived.

“I was so excited to receive Baxter for Christmas! My family welcome him warmly, and it seemed the start of something beautiful. At the time my younger brother was twelve. He thought that Baxter was cute but did not treat him respectfully.

He would rough house with him, not to the point of hurting him physically, but to the point of him becoming so uncomfortable that he became aggressive, because dogs only have one way to communicate “no” or “stop”.

I was not okay with how he was being treated, and no one, including my parents, respected me or listened to me when I told them to stop. Because of how my brother rough housed with Baxter consistently, he became aggressive more consistently.

I was incredibly frustrated; I knew that Baxter was unhappy and no one would help me ensure he was cared for as he should have been. I felt helpless and I carried guilt about this for years. Though I wish I had done more to stand up for him, in retrospect, I understand that being sixteen and my parents not seeing how my brother treated Baxter was wrong, there was not much more I could have done.

I moved out as soon I could and of course took Baxter with me. In our house, the first rule is that Baxter is treated with respect, and if you do not follow this rule, you are not welcome back. I am always Baxter’s confident protector and advocate.”


I appreciate my readers being so candid with their stories and I hope that their advice helps new Chihuahua parents. Always remember that properly raising your Chihuahua is very important because of their long life span.

Properly raising a Chihuahua means better quality of life for your Chihuahua and for you, and that he would be more adoptable if something were to happen to you.

We’d all love to hear more stories of what you wished you had done differently with your chihuahua puppy. So leave a comment and let us know!


Friday 29th of December 2023

I was wondering if there is a way to make them friendly with children. I know they are small and sometimes are intimidated so they lash out. Is there a way to make them comfortable around any size human and animal? Thank you

Cathy Bendzunas

Friday 29th of December 2023

Only have them around lots of kids so they get used to them. But then, you are taking the chance of those kids getting bit.

Jane F

Tuesday 26th of December 2023

Your smile there in the chair with the 4 sweet pup dogs all in your lap is precious! Your smile says it all !


Wednesday 27th of December 2023

@Cathy Bendzunas, I love the pic. With you and your babies they are precious. I look forward to your letters every week, I can’t wait to read them. Have a Happy healthy New Year!


Cathy Bendzunas

Tuesday 26th of December 2023

Thanks Jane!

Donna Slocum

Wednesday 17th of May 2023

Ive had Itsie since 8wks old ,she is now 10 1/2 yrs. I wish I had played with Itsie more. She doesn't play, be it with other dogs or with toys absolutely nothing. I was layed up w/illness I continue to battle so other then throwing a toy for fetch I couldn't do much. She just was not and is not interested..

Cathy Bendzunas

Wednesday 17th of May 2023

Don't beat yourself up Donna. I did try to play with all my puppies. But some just aren't interested in play. Some are when they are puppies but grow out of it as adults and some love to play throughout their live. If Itsie was a dog interested in playing, she would play by herself.


Thursday 19th of August 2021

I have a 11month female chihuahua got to meet her at 6 7weeks before taking her home at 12weeks. I did that constantly touch her ears,checking her teeth giving her back and tummy scratches.doesnt make no difference if she doesn't won't to be touch she will growl and try to bite me.chihuahuas are like toddlers u don't no what their personality is going to be like untill 8 or 9months old.They are hard work like toddlers who never grow up.They need lots of attention,play. You can't leave them alone for longer then 3hours or they will constantly bark all the time.i wish I took my girl Rosie to training but I still think it won't make a difference because chihuahuas are knownen for the aggressive behaviour and biting and barking. She doesn't do this all the time. I just can't touch her when she is sleeping because she gets so aggressive and try's to bite me if I try pat her when she's asleep.she is so obsessed with tissues u can't try and get it out of her mouth she will growl and try and bite you. So I just ignore her then reward her when she drops it. Chihuahuas love I now am ignoring her bad behaviour and praising her for her good behaviour.


Thursday 19th of August 2021

That's a good strategy. Dogs hate to be ignored. Not all chis are aggressive. My long hair chi and my chorkie are not aggressive at all. My prior chi was a little. She wasn't with me because I was her human. But she just wanted everyone else to leave her alone and if they wouldn't, she would growl and snap.


Wednesday 18th of August 2021

Wish we had more time with our rescue Chihuahua. He was 6/7 when we got him, he was beaten most of his life. It took us 2 years to finally get him to give us hugs and want to be held and petted and spoiled. The joy we could see in him when we came home and how happy he was to see us, and get treats and kisses. We had him for 8 years and that little guy to this day still makes my eyes water up. So glad he enjoyed what time he had left spoiled rotten!


Wednesday 18th of August 2021

I'm so glad he had a happy life with your family David. And I agree, we never have enough time with them.