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Separation Anxiety in Chihuahuas

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Separation Anxiety in Chihuahuas

As pet lovers, we might think that it’s adorable when our dogs bark or whine as we walk out the door. It’s great that your pint-sized pup always wants to be by your side, isn’t it?

Well, though many of us may think that a clingy Chihuahua is charming, experiencing separation anxiety is no picnic from your pup’s point of view. Our little dogs are highly social little companions, even more so than many other breeds, and it’s pretty typical for them to feel anxious when they’re separated from their family.

Unfortunately, an overly attached Chi can often become quite distressed when they’re left alone, and this can lead to a multitude of behavior problems that can make life uncomfortable for both you and your pooch.

What does separation anxiety look like in your pet? Just as every dog is unique, so are their different ways of expressing extreme anxiety. Chihuahuas with this condition might howl, bark, destroy household items, claw at doors or windows, try to escape, and pee and poop inappropriately in the house while their owners are away. Some pups refuse to eat or drink, or can even become so upset that they can harm themselves as well!

It’s important to know that our canine companions aren’t doing this out of spite, boredom, or poor training, however – they are just truly so distressed that they need to find an outlet for their extreme emotions while they’re separated from us.

It’s also been found that dogs that have had a less than ideal start in life are also more likely to develop separation anxiety. Chihuahuas that have been adopted from shelters, puppy mills, and pet stores, or those who have lived in multiple homes are at a higher risk for becoming over-attached and distressed about departures.

How can we reduce the effect that alone time can have on our Chihuahuas? Many owners are upset by their pet’s misery, of course, but have no idea how to even begin to help their pups.

Here are some ways that you can help your Chihuahua to become more independent in order to relax when they can’t be with you.

First, it’s important to teach your Chi to accept your comings and goings as normal and unexciting. Downplay your departures and arrivals from home, avoiding prolonged ‘goodbyes’ when you leave and grandiose greetings when you return, and take your leave quickly and quietly without fuss.

It’s also a good idea to have a special treat or chew that you only give to your furry friend when you’re away so that they begin to look forward to your parting as a positive event. If your pup starts showing signs of nervousness during certain steps of your normal routine before you leave (like putting on your coat, for example), practice doing this step over and over without actually leaving the house, and reward your Chihuahua when they stay calm.

Next, it’s time to increase your pup’s sense of independence. Although many of us love the close relationship that we share with our petite Chis, it’s healthier for them to feel confident and safe spending some time away from you. Ignore excessive attention-seeking behavior from your Chihuahua, and reward them for calm behavior in your presence instead, like sitting calmly or lying down.

Chihuahua in crate

It’s also essential for your dog to get used to being separated from you while you’re home from time to time, too. If your Chihuahua is used to a crate or pen, then provide them with an opportunity for some alone time, along with a good chew toy or food puzzle when you’re busy in another room.

Never force your Chi to stay in a crate if they become anxious or nervous in one, however, since this can make their anxiety worse. You can also teach your Chihuahua a ‘go to bed’ or ‘mat’ command, rewarding them for learning to relax in place for gradually longer periods away from you instead of constantly following you around.

You might be interested to know that positive obedience training sessions (like learning fun tricks) can also help build your pup’s confidence, too, and are a great way to maintain the close bond that you have with your dog. Keep in mind that you should never, ever punish your Chihuahua for their ‘bad’ behavior that stems from separation anxiety – not only will they not link the punishment with any mess that they make, but doing this can make them even more worried, which is obviously not the goal you’re striving for!
Finally, remember that your Chihuahua will probably benefit from an increase in exercise, too. The old adage  ‘a tired dog is a happy dog’ holds some truth, and it’s possible that your pup won’t feel like expending excess energy due to anxiety if they’re tired from a busy play date or an exciting trip to the park. Chihuahuas have busy minds and bodies, and need lots of mental and physical activity to remain happy and healthy.

Although the suggestions above can often help a dog with mild to moderate separation anxiety, for some Chihuahuas, their distress reaches a point that can actually prove dangerous. Our tiny canine companions can often cause significant damage to themselves or their homes because of their anxiety.

If your four-legged friend is extremely upset by your absence or seems to be getting worse, the best option to help them may be to seek the help of a veterinary behaviorist. A professional can actually help your Chi more effectively by tailoring a treatment plan to your situation, teaching you how you can gently and properly condition your petite pet to being left alone over time.

scared Chihuahua

In some severe cases of separation anxiety, medication may also be needed; it can decrease your dog’s sense of terror and panic as you work on your training program with them.

Although dealing with your Chihuahua’s separation anxiety might be annoying or frustrating, remember that the feeling is far worse for your pup. The process of treating this condition is one that takes time, patience, and positivity on your part, but with the right guidance, your small furry family member can learn that being away from you is truly not as bad as it seems.

Here’s another good article I found on dog separation anxiety.

Do you have this problem with your Chihuahua? What have you done to help them? Leave a comment below and let us know what has worked for you or what issues you are still dealing with.




Saturday 4th of January 2020

I adopted my Chi when he was 5 months old (he is 14 months now) from a home where he had 2 siblings and his mother still there. The human was retired and always had people over. This was great for socializing him...he’s the friendliest little dog to all people, kids and animals. My husband is retired and I work from home so he is not used to being alone. This led to severe separation anxiety. After months of training and cleaning up his destruction when we leave we adopted a sweet female cat. They have bonded so much that we can leave for 4-5 hours and there is nothing destroyed and no accidents either. He just needed a friend. We honestly adopted the cat for the dog.


Saturday 4th of January 2020

Yeah they do get lonely very easily. I'm glad he has a kitty friend now and you are lucky he likes other people. So often they only like their human(s) and that's it.


Wednesday 18th of September 2019

Our Chi, Lexi, is 11 and started having separation anxiety about a year ago. We would come home and she would be sitting on the rug inside the door shaking which caused weight loss. She has always been tiny, under 3 pounds. We put another bed by the front door with a warm snuggle safe and a blanket. That seems to have worked as she is always in her bed when we return.


Wednesday 18th of September 2019

That's great that such an easy fix helped her!


Tuesday 6th of August 2019

I take my chi with me in a dog bag or get a dog sitter since day one n she is 10years


Tuesday 6th of August 2019

Does she do okay with a dog sitter? I'm a dog sitter myself and some do fine and others not so much.


Sunday 27th of May 2018

I got a Jack Russell he is17year old when I have to go somewhere he bark all the time I am gone he didn't use to do this


Sunday 27th of May 2018

This happens sometimes Charlotte with elderly dogs. Your vet can give you something to calm your old guy down or try CBD oil or treats for dogs.


Monday 29th of August 2016

Our Chi is 8 years old and has always been a handful. He guards everything. Food, water, toys, even me, from our other two dogs who are older. He's recently started the separation anxiety behavior, but only when I'm gone. My husband and son can be here, but he whines and runs back and forth looking for me, they say. No matter what they do, it doesn't help. The guarding thing has got to stop. He is attacking the other two now if he perceives they are getting to close to me. He outweighs them both, so I really need some help here. Thanks.


Monday 29th of August 2016

What may help for when you are gone is to wear an old tshirt for a few hours and right before you leave, take it off and give it to your dog. I'm not sure what to do about the attacking the other dogs other than giving him a time out whenever he acts up. Would you like for me to post your question on the facebook page Vicki and see if anyone has some good advice for you?